Limited Access
There has been a debate concerning feminine women and masculine women. The general consensus seems to be that some women are naturally feminine while others select to ignore their feminine side. I have put deep thought into my feminine.
My femininity is not conditional. It’s ingrained in me. It’s embedded in me. It is what makes me. It is my spirit, my energy, my aura. It’s not something I can cut on and cut off. However, there are conditions attached to the access of my femininity. See, we live in a world that is full of users, abusers, and manipulators. We live in a world that is full of unhealed people that will want to make you miserable like they are miserable. And as a feminine woman who knows how much of a gift my femininity is, I do not want to give access to the wrong person because where my femininity is a privilege, it’s a gift, it’s an asset, in the wrong hands, it’s detrimental.
Powerful Gift
So, as a woman who knows just how powerful her femininity is, I know not to give that access to just anyone. So, the conditions that is attached to the access does have requirements. I need to see that you are a man of integrity, you are a man with good character. I need to see that you are a man who is dependable. I need to see that you are a man handling business because if I allow you access to my most vulnerable, soft self, and it ends up being a detriment to me because you are not the right man, then I’m the one left picking up the pieces.
And there are a lot of women who can no longer afford to pick those pieces up because they have been shattered, they have been dropped, they have been mishandled so many times because they gave access to the wrong men. So now, we are very cautious. Now, we look deep and we tread light. It’s not that men have to pull the femininity out of us, it’s that men have to prove you are someone I can trust with my femininity because I don’t need you to weaponize my tears when I am vulnerable with you and show you my soft side. I don’t need you to misuse my trust because, when we trust you, we’ll follow you to the ends of the earth.
I need to make sure that you are going to be leading me in the right direction. All of that are conditions. All of that is the standard that shows me I can trust you with 100% of me. So, it’s not that my femininity is conditional, it’s that it comes with conditions.
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