Communication
Conversation rules the nation…or so they say. Did you also know that it can make or break you relationship? Without consistent, honest and transparent communication with your partner, your needs and wants are sure to go unmet. Unless you are in a relationship with a mind reader, there is no way to know what you or your partner is feeling without proper communicating. While it is understood that some conversations are hard to have, it is often times more difficult to sever the romantic connections and soul ties we established partners instead of communicating. When communicating feelings in a healthy relationship we should remember that it is you and partner against the problem. It is nor you and your partner against one another. Even if the problem is a negative feeling brought on by the actions of your partner, the problem is the action that caused the feeling, not your partner.
Compromise
Communicating with your mate about how you feel and being receptive to them sharing their feelings, is imperative to addressing the problem at hand. Do you want to fix the problem so you can move on? That is the question you have to ask yourself. If the answer is yes, then you have to put the fear of being vulnerable, along with pride and ego, to the side and work with your love to identify what the issue it. After you both are in agreement with titling the problem is, the next step is to create a solution that you both can be happy with. Compromise requires negotiation. A wise man once told me that in any good negotiation both parties should leave a little on the table. This is where you and your love get to meet each other in the middle. No one should feel slighted or responsible for bearing the bulk of the compromising. And that is because you both made equal steps to one another.
Commit
The communication in your relationship can be the catalyst to finding the happy medium or compromise that can lead to the best relationship you’ve ever had. If there is a lack in communication, you remove all hope for opportunities that you and your partner could create. Both of you need to communicate your grievances, needs and wants. This allows you to use those shared details to discuss a compromise. Next is the best part. You all can create a plan on how to move forward. After communicating and compromising, you all are ready to commit to the course of action that you all created together. The commitment to the plan will push you past the current issue and into the bright and loving future.